"For you formed my inward parts; You covered me in my mother's womb. I will praise You, for I am fearfully and wonderfully made; Marvelous are Your works, and that my soul knows very well. My frame was not hidden from You, when I was made in secret, and skillfully wrought in the lowest parts of the earth. Your eyes saw my substance, being yet unformed. And in Your book they all were written, the days fashioned for me, when as yet there were none of them." - Psalm 139:13-16
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4.08.2008

Rylee got a new set of wheels!

We just got home after a full day-lunch outside at Frostop and then off to the park. Chased squirrels, hunted down a lizard's home, met a few friendly dogs, and enjoyed the sunshine.
Our DreamerDesign family sent Rylee her new wheels, just in time for our Disney trip. I never thought they could make something better than our last one...but once again they exceeded all expectations! Rylee should have plenty of room to grow, we still have loads of underseat storage space, and they added foot straps to help with positioning. They also sent us an awesome bug net that Bonnie and Clyde could not break into, and added a cute little 'rearview window' so I can see Rylee at all times. I was so excited to try it out, I looked like Ralphy opening his Red Ryder BB gun! The whole thing went together in less than five minutes. Rylee seemed very comfortable in it, so we all enjoyed our day out and about. What a way to start the summer! Thanks for all your hard work, DreamerDesign...we love you guys!



Check it out, her whole ensemble with stroller match! Only RyleeBug!
Now, we've just got to work on her tan!
Look at the huge canopy on this sucker!
We won't have to worry about sun, weather, or overhead lights.
Don't worry Matt-Her feet fit perfectly into the foot wells, but I had just changed her diaper.

Look at this perfect pose and grin...hmmmm....she must be up to something!

Right before she spotted the lizard...


Found the lizard...and also got her entire head dunked into the fountain.
(The sign in the background reads, "Please do not play or dive into the fountain.")

Rylee's big girl sneakers.

Ready for the Florida sun and Disney!
We'll be sure to post more pics during our vacation. Please pray for safe travel-that's a long drive for Ryann and Rylee. Also that we have a stress free, fun, blessedly uneventful time.
Can't wait to make more memories with our girls. Look out Disney-two more princesses are coming to the castle!





3.26.2008

Inspiring!


Okay, you all remember me mentioning the Ladybug Club in Jacksonville, Florida.
They are still working on their website, but it is up and running!
Wanted to share the site with everyone.
We are so proud of our friends and family whose lives have been
touched through Rylee. Not only do they love us, pray for us, and encourage us-
but they are stepping out and helping other families in similar situations.
Thanks Angie and Hannah-you crazy girls! We love you!


Rylee's Ryder (middle) with huge storage basket for all her things!



Now, to all our special needs families. Everyone asks us, "Where did you get Rylee's stroller?"
Let me introduce you to our DreamerDesign family in Washington. After a whole lot of hauling, aggravation, annoyance, and loose screws (we all know I have plenty of those already! grin) I was sick of Rylee's mobility being limited to a KidKart. We need a product that meets all of Rylee's needs and fits into our family's lifestyle. Enter DreamerDesign-they stopped, listened, and cared-and in the process...of course...fell in love with Rylee. They adapted a stroller to meet Rylee's needs and continue to strive towards making products that enable families to get out and enjoy life with their child. The bad news, she has now outgrown her RyleeRyder! The good news? Janie, Greg, Matt, Martin and the entire office are currently slaving away to adapt a bigger stroller for Rylee-we have to have our jogging stroller for Disney of course! Look, Rylee will be meeting royalty! She has to look great! giggle We are getting ready to send out Rylee's old stroller to her buddy, Fiona-and hope they enjoy it as much as we have.
In the meantime, we are also preparing to order a wheelchair too for Rylee's needs. Pray that we will have wisdom-Medicaid only allows for one every five years, so it has to really adjust if she'll have it until she is nine years old!-and be able to find one before we go to Disney. We like having two mobility products-then we always have choices depending on what we'll be doing that day. Pray that God will send us another wonderful company as compassionate as DreamerDesign to work with...they have set the bar high!
(DreamerDesign link to the left.)


Please remember to pray for two families we've recently come in contact with:Emma Vannatter from WV. She recently had a bone marrow transplant and is now facing all the side affects that come with this aggressive treatment. Aaron met her Daddy while out of town working.
Riley Turner from FL. Pray the specialists have wisdom as they care for her.
Both families have shown impressive strength and God granted grace as they face many difficult decisions for their child. Please remember them in your prayers.
We are all well and excited to see Spring here, Summer approaching! See you all soon! Can't wait to show you all our Disney pictures and tell you how much fun we had.



3.24.2008

Joy


"There is a road from the eyes to the heart that does not go through the intellect."
--Leonardo da Vinci--

My hot cocoa is steaming beside me. The sun slowly spreading its fingers through the night sky. I just finished my morning devotions focusing on joy.
I used to wonder why the Bible coupled night with pain and grief, morning with joy and relief.
Why do loved ones slip away under the cover of darkness?
How does morning fill us with hope and expectancy?
Then I lived long days in the night. Waiting, hoping, praying. Trying to believe. The shadows stretched so long over the hospital room where Rylee lay unmoving. I remember sitting with Rylee that night, 4th of July fireworks lighting the sky, illuminating her still face, finally free from the feeding tube and ventilator. Two years later as I held Kaymaen in my arms, I prayed for the morning to come-hoping for one more day with my precious little girl. Those shadows still grip my heart from time to time. Tangible enough, I feel as though I should be able to fling them off my spiritual being. It's these times that I'm so thankful for God's reminding presence.
Joy comes in the morning.
How could I ever appreciate the true meaning of joy without knowing the full measure of despair? Shadows can only be made with the presence of Light. As He refines us, grows us up more in Him, enlarges our hearts and expands our minds...it hurts.
Joy comes in the morning.
Yet, we still have a reason for the hope that lies within us. The night is long. Winters in our life seem to stretch forever-cold and bitter. But, right around the corner is the promise...
Joy comes in the morning.
If we can just wait, He will renew our strength-allow us to grow stronger and taller in our belief in His plans. How grateful I am that while I may be stilled, dormant in my spirit...He is always looking forward to the spring...new growth, the excitement of possiblities, unexpected surprises,
and the beauty of joy filled days.

3.18.2008

Rylee's Rally












Well, our first annual Rylee's Rally has come and gone...and we are already looking forward to next year! We had 57 vendors, and just shy of 500 people come through the doors Saturday.
It was so exciting, watching all the vendors set up-Make A Wish, local specialty clinics and specialists, Shriners and Cabell Huntington Hospital pediatric services, local therapists, and many others. Amazing that so many would come out, spend their Saturday helping families of special needs children. But, nothing prepared us for all the families that attended! It was so overwhelming to meet everyone. I didn't know if I should laugh or cry for all my excitement.
All the families were able to network with area services and agencies-getting the care they need and deserve for their child. We had families from the local area and also Columbus, Louisville, Inez, Pt. Pleasant, and even as far away as New York. Everyone-local media outlets, vendors, and the families-ensured that not only did we have a great turn out, but that our time was productive and the families learned alot about available resources. There's no way we could have accomplished everything without each person's help.
One mommy grabbed me as she was leaving and thanked me, big tears in her eyes. Her daughter was eight and they had no idea these services were in place.
I scrambled around each booth, introducing myself and thanking vendors, but also to grab information for our own family. When I came home Saturday night I dumped everything out on the living room floor and just started crying. All I could think of was-wow, this is what all the families went home with! What would our life have been like if we'd had all this when Rylee first came home? How awesome to think that a parent went home with a lighter heart, knowing that Monday morning they could call someone and get help!
To everyone involved-thankyou for giving your time and talents. Also to all our prayer warriors-the weather was perfect and the turn out beyond expectations. Guess that is what the Lord means when He says He wants to give us "exceeding abundant."
We already have free food promised for next year and will be working on procuring a bigger venue (for free?) next year. Look out Civic Center...here we come!

Rylee is doing great. She and Ryann are anxious to start our Disney trip. Ryann crawls up in Rylee's bed and speaks "handicap" to her, gabbing in their language about the trip. Ryann's wonderful kindergarten teacher has also unknowingly taught Ryann a new phrase. When waiting on Rylee to fill her diaper the other night, Ryann looked at Rylee and said, "Come on Rylee, before I retire." Very amusing coming out of a five year old's mouth. Rylee is responding more during her therapies-grousing and grumping during, and charming us with grins when she knows it is all over. She is still trying to cut a front tooth which we can see, mocking us right under her gums. We are getting ready to adjust her wheelchair again since she is so long!
Being there Saturday and meeting those sweet families and then holding some of the little ones just reminded me again of how God has blessed us and how far Rylee has come.

We'll keep you posted, and as always, thankful for good friends and family!

3.11.2008

Media Release

To all of Rylee's groupies who have missed the news this week...
or don't live nearby-
Here's the aired segment, just click the link and chose the option "play video."
If you have the time, be sure to drop Gina Long (WOWK), Carrie Cline (WSAZ),
and Laura Wilcox (Herald-Dispatch)
a note letting them know what you think of the segment and article.
We are very appreciative of their help in getting the word out
about the resource/information fair.
Currently we are at 50 vendors...and counting!
And seriously, how cute does Rylee look in that outfit!?
Update on Thursday, March 13th
First - to everyone who has called and emailed to be involved-THANKYOU!
While we are worn out, the overwhelming feeling is excitement. It's so awesome to think that we are helping families get the same support system in place that we have.
We've even had folks from other parts of the state, and OTHER states, call because they want to do this in their neck of the woods!
Please pray we have a great day, there will be many families helped and encouraged, and that lives are changed.
For those of you who have followed Rylee's story all along...
Remember when I said, "Jesus used a little boy with a loaf of bread and fishes to feed thousands...whose to say He can't use our little girl?"
Seems very fitting, especially this weekend.
"For Thou didst form my inward parts; Thou didst weave me in my mother's womb. I will give thanks to Thee, for I am fearfully and wonderfully made; wonderful are Thy works, and my soul knows it very well. My frame was not hidden from Thee, when I was made in secret, and skillfully wrought in the depths of the earth. Thine eyes have seen my unformed substance; and in Thy book they were all written, the days that were ordained for me, when as yet there was not one of them."

Psalm 139:13-16